I have been thinking a lot about my expectations of other people. Namely my close friends. But especially my husband.
You might be surprised to know how quickly I feel slighted or disrespected. Or maybe you won't. I certainly say the words "rude" and "inconsiderate" an awful lot.
In stepping back a little I am beginning to realize just how self-absorbed one must be to interpret so many otherwise (mostly) meaningless actions and interactions as intentional slights.
I wonder if I would let these people off the hook more if I just had more Jesus in my life? If I fully allowed my Savior to complete me in all those unfinished places, to fill the holes that are God-sized, would it matter to me where my husband puts his socks?
Yeah, I don't think so either.
What a refreshing blessing is the person who gives without expecting anything in return because he already has all that he needs.
What a Friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and griefs to bear!♦
What a privilege to carry everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit, O what needless pain we bear,
All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer.
Have we trials and temptations? Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged; take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness; take it to the Lord in prayer.
Are we weak and heavy laden, cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge, take it to the Lord in prayer.
Do your friends despise, forsake you? Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In His arms He’ll take and shield you; you will find a solace there.
Blessed Savior, Thou hast promised Thou wilt all our burdens bear
May we ever, Lord, be bringing all to Thee in earnest prayer.
Soon in glory bright unclouded there will be no need for prayer
Rapture, praise and endless worship will be our sweet portion there.
-- Joseph M. Scriven, 1855.
good stuff, Megan.
ReplyDeleteYes! I think there is a spirit of offense that follows me around! I've really had to reject a lot of that thinking. Someone once told me that God has given me a sensitive spirit, but that I need not think people are trying to hurt me b/c most of the time they aren't. I think that has radically changed the way I view these "slights". Being analytical makes it even more difficult b/c we tend to overanalyze EVERYTHING. So, here's to saying "No!" to self-absorption. Hugs!
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